BIOGRAPHY follows a few sample pictures and basic information:
Parents: Garry and Mary Strohmeyer
Co Authored by Misti King;
The above picture is the Grants Pass street display for Christmas (2007) on 6th St.
The pictures below (reading left to right, top to bottom) is Danielle at Universal Studios Hollywood, Jan. 1, 2010
The second is Danielle and Timothy at a LA Dodgers Game in June 2009.
The third is from the Winter 2008 with Jodie, Danielle and Timothy waiting for the School bus. The forth is my son Timothy’s 11th Birthday at Jan & Cary’s home.
The fifth is Michelle 16th Birthday
The sixth is Danielle’s 13th 2009 birthday.
(Click Pictures below to enlarge)
I currently live in Southern Oregon, and have been in the Aquarium and Pet related business since 1977. I owned a Pet store and aquarium maintenance and design business in the Los Angeles area from 1978 until 2002 when we moved to Grants Pass Oregon.
Reference: American Aquarium Products
I designed some of my own equipment such as the “Custom 15 watt UV Sterilizer” and Medicated Wonder Shells I sell here (as well as many custom aquarium and pond filter installations and designs).
I have done contract maintenance for Disney, The Bahooka Restaurant (over 100 aquariums, mostly larger than 100 gallons), Coaster Co. (the largest furniture importer in North America, also based in the Los Angeles area), and many more. I also have made excellent business contacts over the years (especially in Asia, UK).
I have owned aquariums since I was 9 years old (1968), and at one time had a room with nothing but aquariums on racks two aquariums high, in addition to this I had literally 100s of aquariums in my care in my maintenance business as well.
My wife, Jodie, (Joanne) currently works at Bi-Mart in Grants Pass (a Northwest only Department store similar to Wal-Mart, but smaller).
I went to high school at Los Altos High in Hacienda Heights, CA. and College at Cal Poly University, Pomona.
I was in the class of 1977 at Los Altos High School (Hacienda Heights). I went to Hillgrove Elementary, and Orange Grove Jr. High.
MORE IN DEPTH BIO (I will add more to this as time permits)
I, Carl Strohmeyer, was born on February 9, 1959 at Hart Hospital in Baldwin Park, CA. My parents (& one older sibling, Janice) were living in an apartment over my Grandfather’s garage in Baldwin Park.
Around my first birthday we moved to a new home in a housing tract in the fast growing bedroom community of Hacienda Heights (a Suburb of Los Angeles). Hacienda Heights went from orange groves to a community of 35,000 in around 10 years (it is larger now).
I liked school in my early years, and in particular liked my Kindergarten teacher (Mrs. Wooton) whom I had again in 2nd grade.
However this all came to a crashing end in the 4th grade with Mrs. Eckman whom I had the great misfortune to have again in the 6th grade.
I often day-dreamed in class and she called me a vegetable and informed the rest of the class I was doomed to be a failure (on one occasion she took a “doodle” of mine, held it up and stated; “This is what a Failure does”).
From this point on school was pure misery as even when I met new students such as in Middle School or High School, others seemed to be “filled in” as to who I was and what I am in others views.
In hindsight, I probably should have tried harder to set things right however, I did make some attempts including joining square dancing, but this ended in disaster for me.
On the last day of the class the boys had to ask the girls to dance and NOT one would dance with me.
This left me in tears for days where I withdrew to spending time with my pets/fish I sucked in my emotions so others could not see them. This also resulted in my being hospitalized for an ulcer in the 6th grade.
A bright spot was my family camping trips to places like Utah and Yellowstone that my Dad and Mom would take us on. My Grandfather, along with my Dad took me on a trip to Panguitch Lake Utah, during the first week of 8th grade. It was especially memorable to me, for the beauty and the peace I felt. When I returned to school after the trip, the negative revelations of what persons really thought of me came to light as my class mates “happily” thought I had moved.
Also, a “flight lesson” with a friend of my Dad was a memorable birthday present when I was 9 that I will never forget.
One friend did truly stick by me and that was Greg Siegel, he often defended me emotionally and his friendship helped me feel like less of failure.
I had, and still have, a skinny build. Several persons labeled me as ‘Gay’ for this reason, except not just in those words (others such as “worm” were used). This was also a struggle for me to deal with. My weight continues to haunt me as persons still treat me this way or go to the other extreme and judge my motives of helping a friend that might just happen to be a female.
I also really enjoyed Jr. High (Middle School) band, especially my instructor there, Mrs. Duke. I also had good friends in Jeff Fournier and again Greg Siegel as well as Luke Camarillo.
Unfortunately high school band was much more miserable, even though I loved music as I was made to feel an inch tall.
Again in hindsight, maybe I should have “fought back”, but by this time I had such terrible self esteem, I simply did not have it in me.
Even then I did enjoy the band tournaments and playing at the many football games. I rarely missed the games even after leaving band to concentrate on studies that I hoped would one day redeem me.
I dealt with bullying by often being a “class clown” in some classes, in other classes I was just quiet.
I still to this day deal with sadness with humor.
Some see this others do not. As an example, when I was forced to leave my business and move my family quickly to Oregon to escape a terrible influence who took advantage of my wide’s postpartum depression, several of my customers were quite surprised when I told them why we had to move.
Quoting a few comments: “You always were joking around and seemed happy”
Back to High School, although I could not get a date (in part I still felt very insecure due to the past ridicule, as well I was frankly rather socially immature until I got into my 20s). I finally met a nice girl (Pam) in my senior year who treated me very respectfully & showed a positive side to Christians that would be a seed for later, so thanks go to her!. She was a Junior, who set me up with her sister, who was a freshman.
This allowed me go to the senior prom. We later dated for a while, however her dad felt it was inappropriate for us to date after I graduated from High School. Which at the time, though I was very mature in how I was very focused on achieving success in business, I was still socially immature and so I did not understand ‘why’ since I did know I was quite innocent (my friends even joked with me about my lack of “worldliness”).
Another bright spot in high school was meeting my friend Randy Viall, we are still good friends to this day.
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Beginning years in Pet Business and the establishing of my Aquarium Business
After High School life really began looking up, I met new friends at work, I began skiing every other weekend which I had a natural talent for (unlike some other athletic endeavors), these were some of my most positive and “happy” years.
While in college at California Polytechnic University I got a job at Archie’s House of Pets and within about 6 months I was the manager of the three stores fish departments and an assistant manager at the West Covina Mall store. My original “boss” was Danny DiGiacamo who was great at tutoring me in many ways.
He later left to run his own stores and Debbie Galea took over running the West Covina store (Danny ran all three). She did not have the business knowledge of Danny, but still a good person to work under.
In 1978, during my time at Archie’s I started my Aquarium Maintenance business (Carl’s Aquarium Service at the time). This unfortunately caused some friction with Debbie’s father and owner of Archie’s. He was not actually active in running his business, so I along with Tris Higa (whom I would later marry) left to start our own store in late 1979.
The aquarium service business really blossomed when an employee at the Bahooka restaurant called me to treat dying Arowana that she had been unsuccessful at treating up to this point. I was able to save her prize fish and she recommended me to her boss, Jack, and I soon was maintaining the multiple aquariums at the two Polynesian restaurants. I would add MANY aquariums and re-worked the filter systems on the remainder of the existing aquariums.
The Bahooka Restaurant would foster many other accounts such as the Lobster House (which fostered many itself in Pasadena), an account with Disney Studios and many more. Also during this time I picked up Coaster Co. (via my store though) which would eventually grow into my largest account up to the day I had to move to Oregon.
FOR MY FULL AQUARIUM/POND BUSINESS BIOGRAPHY, please follow this link: CARL STROHMEYER; MY AQUARIUM EXPERIENCE/BIO
In 1989 after a painful divorce from Tris (she left me for another man) I had to sell my first Local Fish Store. I kept my aquarium maintenance business and my brother in law, Gregg, continued with me. We are still good friends to this day and he still owns/runs my old service business.
Shortly thereafter, I chose to start training for a career that was my other passion, and that was flying. I did well mostly due to management skills which I applied to cockpit management. I know this as my FAA examiners and instructors had told me this about my abilities.
During this time I met and married my current sweet & beautiful wife, Jodie (we married in 1991). I got as far as my Multi-Engine license ($35,000 later) and was working on my commercial certificate when I canceled my largest maintenance account.
This was due to sexual comments directed at my employees working there. Canceling that account, coupled with my first child being born with neural-sensory dysfunction, caused a significant loss of income.
Thankfully the neural-sensory disorder is no longer a direct problem with her, although she has sense been diagnoses with Asberger’s syndrome.
This coupled with postpartum depression, which was worse with our second child and severe after our third child was born & multiple influences amplified it, then began a very difficult slide down hill for my wife with more problems to come that so many people did not understand nor see (we were judged harshly & this in fact only amplified her depression and feeling of isolation).
This forced me to drop out of flight school to help take care of my children and spouse.
I still really miss flying, in part because this was one of the few times in my life when I felt so accepted both by the flying community & by friends who saw this as a much more respectful endeavor than my aquarium work (not to mention the flying community is a vastly more honest and supportive of each other than the very demanding/dishonest aquarium/pond community).
Either way I still have some good memories and would never give up or trade my family (wife and kids) for anything, even having this part of my life back!
MOVE TO OREGON
We moved to Southern Oregon in December of 2002. Michelle, our oldest, had been sent ahead for her protection & mental health, in early November.
We moved to be near my sister Jan (who along my brother in law Cary Cound) and to escape bad influences (IE a Psychopath who has continued to stalk our family as of 2011) who took advantage of Jodie’s severe Postpartum depression after our 3rd child was born, which resulted in $80,000 debt.
We still owe $30,000 of this as the sale of our LA home could not pay it off. I did not declare bankruptcy, to protect my credit, keep jobs at my business and other personal reasons.
Moving also provided more help with our special needs children, me and my wife.
What was so frustrating and embittering is that I said little (and still do) as to how much time I generally had to invest in taking care of my family as my wife was simply not able to, yet many made critical statements that had no reality in the facts (although there were core persons that knew the truth such as Bob Mendoza).
Her family over time finally realized this as well.
Others, especially at our old Church, Bethany Baptist of West Covina, chose not to look below the surface as I never said a peep about Jodie’s difficulties and I constantly “picked up the pieces” so as to not drag her name through the gutter.
They chose only to listen to untruths and half-truths that I did not do enough, despite the fact that I fed, bought groceries, did ALL medical care of Timothy and in general performed 75% of most home care for my family during this time (although Bob M took note and attempted to help).
All the while I had been working long hours including recycling on the side to help pay for the constant bills that she and the bad influence ran up (IMO and a couple of Psychiatrists opinion, she did this to appease her depression, which she could not help, but this “bad influence encouraged).
One couple in particular were especially cruel, they said very vile things about our children and in one meeting about my son, things were said in both me and my wife’s presence where I could literally see the life leave my wife’s eyes as she went into a very deep depression, and within the week, she had allowed this bad influence into our life and my daughter was also harmed.
For me, this added to my struggles with bitterness which did not help me be as understanding as I could have been, especially since I just buried these feelings rather than give them to God.
In most cases any other man would have taken the kids and left. I sought legal help that showed I could gain full custody if I desired, but this was and is not good enough for others that stood in judgment of me & her.
Sadly some people continue to judge me (& her) to this very day (in fact I read a very judgmental Facebook comment about me even though she clearly knows anything about me, by someone with a degree in Psychology none the less!).
One positive note during this time were LA Sheriff deputies that DID see through the lies and regularly checked in on my family and business, this included an attempt to make me look controlling when all I was doing was trying keep our family finances from totally going down the toilet.
This attempt by a social worker resulted in one of the Sheriff Deputies calling on our home, where my well documented collection of credit card receipts and more (compiled over a few years via my calls to credit card issuers, banks, etc.) was presented to him. He immediately realized that these charges were bogus & made note of this for “future problems”.
My son (my 3rd child) was very sick when he was young. He had Viral Meningitis, gastro-intestinal problems and more. He now has “high functioning” autism which unfortunately has caused us much rejection, even from our previous Church in West Covina, CA. In fact this rejection was the final nail in the coffin for Jodie.
My daughter Michelle still struggles with depression, in part due to her Asbergers and due to what happened in LA.
Jan, my sister, has been a blessing beyond words in helping my kids as well as me (with my struggles with bitterness) and my wife, Jodie, who is also doing much better at coping with life
Despite the ongoing difficulties, another light here in Grants Pass, besides my sister, has been my Church: Bethany Presbyterian , they have prayed, mentored, and helped with our children (especially Michelle). Special thanks goes to Roger and Bob from Stephen’s Ministries.
We were essentially homeless and lived in our 27 foot Class C Motor Home for over a year in Jan & Cary’s driveway (for which I appreciate them allowing this) while Jan also home temporarily schooled the two older kids. During this time I helped around their house by cutting wood and paying electric bills, etc.
Unfortunately during this time many rumors also circulated as to why we lived in their driveway, mostly stating that I had failed in business, was mooching off my sister/brother-in-law (not at all the case as this was probably the most humbling period in my life), and that I could not take control of my family. In fact one source of the rumors claimed to be Christians! (thankfully most Christians do not behave this way)
Within a couple of months of moving to Oregon, a couple (Paul & Trina) I intrusted to manage my aquarium store and some of my aquarium maintenance accounts and whom were part of the reason I did NOT declare bankruptcy so as to prevent their job loss would betray my trust resulting in the loss of most of my store business and the literal (& illegal) taking of many of my service accounts by telling customers false information.
Thankfully Gregg stepped in and told many of the customers the truth of why I left and what Paul and Trina were up to.
The loss still was in the tens of $1000s when both inventory and goodwill business is considered, but at least Gregg salvaged $10,000 of the business, and in the end there was some justice in that their poor business management and lack of any real knowledge as to this business resulted in the failure of what they stole.
Later (in 2004) after getting some of Jodie’s credit in order, we were able to get a small, 900 square foot home. We initially tried to rent, but no one would rent to us past 2 kids, the same problem was encountered with Mobile Home parks and space rental.
Sadly this home has devalued so much that it is worth $98,000 as of September 2011 while we owe $160,000 (this is about the same price as the first home I bought in 1981- $89,000).
On a positive note, that while this home is old and drafty with many issues, it also came with a large shed (900 square feet) that while in worse shape than the house, it provided me with an inexpensive place to start my business, so in the end, God was clearly looking out for us as a Rental likely would not have worked out in our favor.
Carys of Oregon
I went to work at Cary’s of Oregon English toffee as a factory worker and later production manager for about 3 years before re-starting my aquarium business on the side, which I now run full time.
I felt God had a purpose for me, to help my brother-in-law fulfill his dream! Especially since one of his strengths is being a dreamer of great ideas and making them a reality (as well as incredible mechanical/engineering skills), while one of my strengths is managing (as many who have known me over the years professionally in LA have stated and continue to state during my business trips and other professional contacts).
Unfortunately the rumor mill prevented this from happening.
However, I am very glad to have had the opportunity to help Cary, whom I love very much and thought much of long before I moved here.
MORE CURRENT BIO
It has been difficult making a living here (Grants Pass, Oregon); I set up this internet business based on my experience and ongoing research in the Aquarium maintenance and design business as well as the vast amount of research and tests I performed over the years.
I was hopeful for more community support for my business and products, especially when you consider that much of what I sell is very unique and gets requests even internationally.
Thankfully between the “Everything Aquatic Forum”, many articles that have garnered compliments from pHd researchers from as far away as Pakistan, blogging and web site design improvements, and most of all I give credit to God for lifting business at a time when I had no choice but to let God take charge due to severe family issues once more; my Internet business turned the corner in 2010 and does not depend on generally non existent local support.
This was done with some initial help from Rachel Owen Oliveri and now even MUCH more help from Tommy Butler (who has helped me both professionally and with just being there as a friend), Steven Wright (most of the picture art is his), Devon Trigg, and Misti King (who aided me in editing my articles for grammar, since this is weakness of mine).
Although the business is growing, the income is still somewhat marginal for the hours spent (partly because I sell products I know work, not just what have great mark-ups).
I spend probably 70-80 hours per week just answering email questions and writing/re-writing (updating) articles, as well as SEO work (Search Engine Optimization). I have now even received questions from others (especially in my industry) about my success in SEO.
Hopefully I will be better able to utilize my time so as to “squeeze” some profit out of the higher gross sales.
I am cutting back on time spent in forums, and trying to answer emails and phone calls more efficiently without being rude in my attempts to be more efficient.
Often though this is difficult with many persons who have openly stated their time is more valuable than mine, even when I note that the 1 hour plus spent with them in email does not make any business since for a POTENTIAL sale that might generate $5- $8 at best in actual profit.
I currently only have a few aquariums (as compared to the literally hundreds under my care and the room of personal aquariums at my previous residence), however if space can be made (such as replacing my 60 year old rotting shed), and more income/time becomes available, I will add more.
Before I set up more aquariums, I need to improve our also 60 year old 900 sq. ft. “fire trap” home which has no insulation, bad walls, rotting roof, and faulty wiring.
I also have set up a few local ponds for friends here in Grants Pass.
I am getting better at Web Site Optimization. I have learned from staying up late reading and going to SEO groups on the Web and asking questions. I have achieved front page on many search engines for my keywords, especially with GoDuckGo, Yahoo and Bing.
In fact as to the subject of SEO and other business issues, I am often sought out when I make my LA business trips to pick up supplies. This is very uplifting, as often these individuals are presidents/owners of much larger companies than my own that always want to “Chew the Fat” (discuss business) during my limited time there.
It is also depressing when I realize how terribly disrespected professionally I am here in the Grants Pass, Oregon professional community.
I do find time (and money) to go camping, often with the Holy Rovers of Bethany Presbyterian.
Besides my perennial favorites such as Yellowstone and much of Utah, I enjoy several spots here in Oregon including: Crater Lake, Newberry Volcanic Park, Wallowa State Park (one of my favorites), Diamond Lake, Indian Mary and Gold Beach, just to name a few.
(2008 -2011) Although doing better (especially since taking Intuniv), Timothy still occasionally struggles in school especially socially.
However, he takes great joy in Robotics, Roblox, his video games (including writing code for games now), and the computer in general.
These are his favorites and he is really good at math!
Danielle is Dyslexic and has trouble with school studies.
On a positive note, she is very loving and charismatic, and often senses when others such as myself or Timmy are depressed and is quite the loving comforter. She also recently received a B average and was on her Middle School Honor Role!
Michelle is still often withdrawn and will not communicate fully what is wrong or what happened in LA, however she is improving with her anger issues.
Michelle’s intense personality has pushed her to very good grades in school, even in subjects that are difficult for her. She has an A- to A average and was a member of the National Honor Society upon graduation from High School!
Events of February, 2009
Although much of our families personal life was improving, in part due to close friends and family, which is the reason we moved in the first place, once again ghosts from the past came upon our family.
The unfathomable evil presence I and a couple close friends (such as Roger and Bob Mendoza) felt during this time is something I still shudder when I think of a few years later. What is/was frightening were several evil communications were sent to me that were eerily similar to the false charges made.
Unfortunately an anxiety “melt down” by my oldest daughter at school (which has roots in the past) combined with dishonest rumors from the past caused our local DHS/DCS to once more get involved without any investigation.
Unfortunately a counselor at Grants Pass High played a role in attempting to destroy our family, even if unintentional (although my use of the word “unintentional” is rather generous on my part considering this counselor at the High School was warned/told of this potential issue by other myself, Jan, and even Michelle’s therapist).
Sadly my younger two kids were literally told what to say by these vile people which caused them much mental stress as they knew the truth.
This situation where DHS got involved and moved my family out while away on a business trip, although 100% wrong and evil at its core, has been used by God for good as the outpouring of support from several persons from our Church (mostly our ‘Holy rovers’ camping group) was “emotionally moving” beyond description.
Many honest persons talked with the kids and quickly saw through the obvious lies that were being used to manipulate the kids and this came out in court with the many persons and testimonials that came out.
This includes those who knew that I spend zero time or $$ for myself, as 99% of my waking time is spent either caring for my family or helping others with their aquatic problems as noted earlier.
Even this was used against me since I was often answering phone calls and emails at all hours attempting to answer customer (and mostly non customer) questions or similar by construing that I was more interested in others problems than my own family (of course our family history proves this to be a lie too).
Unfortunately, there are those that are upset that I have cut back on after hours emails/phone calls to answer questions that I generally already have provided the answer to in my dozens of updated articles and have taken to leaving messages on my personal email or even profane messages demanding more of my time.
Reference: Aquarium, Pond Information Articles
The support from Jan and Cary in the early hours (for which I cannot speak of here) were truly God sent and my thanks cannot be expressed enough.
We have also learned who our friends REALLY are and that unfortunately most government officials such as DHS/DCS simply are not interested in the truth (even when the court sees this and dozens of persons tell them the facts in testimonials, etc.).
Nor would the GPPD communicate even though they are well aware of our situation, the rather lazy (or possibly worse, corrupt) GPPD took the opposite approach of simply looking the other way when they could have helped prevent this with the copious amounts of threatening emails turned over to them over the years.
I too have learned (especially with very blunt but caring help from Roger S) that I have to give my bitterness to God, as I have attempted to deal with my bitterness from past issues by simply cramming it deep inside myself rather than letting it go with the Lord’s help.
May 2010 & June 2011; My health (which has not been real good since a serious staph infection in 2004), has been poor. I have had multiple heart tachycardia events, numbness/ “pulsing” in the left side of my neck and left side in general, as well a halter monitor and other tests have shown a considerably elevated heart rate, even at rest (170 beats per minute resting). I underwent more nuclear stress tests and other tests to determine why. As well in October of 2010 I developed Kidney issues.
On positive note the Beta blockers I am taking have helped considerably with my heart, which to the most recent update of this bio is doing well!
In the late Spring of 2011, I was diagnosed with quickly advancing case of neuropathy with exact caused unknown since I am not diabetic (the most common and treatable cause), so it remains basically untreatable but for medications to ease the pain. As well I have a couple of ruptured discs in my back the often add to the pain and may be part of the cause according to a therapist.
The doctor suspect stress as a major factor for the neuropathy, especially since 80% of the symptoms (including heart issues) cleared up during a two week vacation in August of 2011, only to return within a couple of days of my return.
What is still painful to this day and admittedly a struggle, is that somehow I am portrayed as a failure, jerk, and worse (mostly by those who know very little other than “suface observations), yet I have many times shown Christ’s kindness and forgiveness (I still spend 99.9% of my time helping others or my family with basically no “me time”).
This includes being betrayed three times (I understand the power of postpartum depression and the third time was simply listening to those who meant harm on our family and for which truth did not matter).
As well I have forgiven (this does not mean trust) others who have harmed me and my family as knew them as friends and still hope and pray for them.
2012; While Michelle stills struggles considerably with emotional issues, she graduated with honors in June 2012.
As well Danielle continues to be the sweet “glue” by demonstrating her concern to others around her (including Misti’s children such as Titus).
Timothy is on “Intuniv” which is helping CONSIDERABLY with his school work an behavior in general; his is now excelling in school (math in particular).
Sadly though, even as of 2013, much of my article readership is not from those with any intention of purchasing and rather think I can answer their rude attacks via email or in forums.
A good example were some extremely condescending and rude emails by a Steve C. attacking aspects of my Aquarium Lighting article he did not agree with, which sadly he was making liberal “straw man” accusations not founded in what was actually contained in this article.
Reference: Aquarium Light Information
As of 2013, I am continuing to to learn to work through my constant pain from neuropathy (as well as my struggles with bitterness from the past).
I am coming to realize how God has blessed me in so many ways with both children, my wife, my friends, even my business (since I have to trust God through all the terrible Google algorithm changes). I also now realize that though my previous home that I had to give up to protect my family was much nicer, I can make this a reasonably nice home and be thankful that God has given me a home in the first place!
I am also blessed in that we were able to replace our 20 year old motorhome in 2010 with a nicer trailer & vehicle to tow it (the motor home had broken down on almost every trip in the last 12 years and even had issues when brand new)
I still ask of others to support my business and the many articles I provide that often have information that can be found nowhere else by occasionally thanking us with a sale.
As well, as of the latest Google Algorithm update in May of 2013, that allowed many websites with spammy or worse even content plagiarized from me to “leap frog” our business to the point our web traffic and business are now off 50% (we have had to layoff one person, with more likely in early 2014 if things do not change).
Please consider using DuckDuckGo search or Bing over Google.
Please re-post articles on Facebook, Google Plus, or private blogs.
One article that I am very proud of the content has been totally dropped from Google Search after Black Hat SEO practices by Amazon and copyright infringement by About.com is my UV Sterilization article.
I ask that reader please help get this one back out with shout outs on Facebook, Google Plus, personal blogs, etc.
Reference: UVC Sterilization; Correct Level 1 UV Sterilizer Use
This quote from John Chapter 8 helps but also perplexes me as I have shown this mercy (as I feel is asked us all by God) under the darkest of circumstances yet it is I who is often judged by others to this very day?
2 At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. 3 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group 4 and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” 6 They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.
But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. 7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8 Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.
9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”
11 “No one, sir,” she said.
“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
Summary (or what I have learned to this date):
While this autobiography may not read as a very “happy story”, I can say that I have grown in my love of family and God through all the many trials and set backs and realize that this has also allowed me to relate to many others that have gone through similar trials (such as my friend Misti King).
Also to take this less than happy autobiography in context, a reader should spend time in my 100s of articles and then realize that this often dark but honest telling of my life experience is but just a part of me; easily 10,000% more time is spent in maintaining these articles to keep the content as fresh as possible. As well, the rest of my free time is spent in forums and email helping others in a positive manner!!!
A Few Couple References:
*Aquarium and Pond Information
*Aquarium & Pond Answers
Finally, while we still get judged for my autistic son’s behavior, often by persons that should know better (although many men seem to understand him much better), I would never trade him for anything in the world!
I am also learning from my true friends (such as Bob Mendoza), that despite the many judgments heaped upon me, especially since moving to Grants Pass (& reaching a Crescendo while working at Carys of Oregon), that I am doing the best I can to follow God’s will and that includes still using my God given talents of management, which many of my articles reflect since much of the content is gleaned from my understanding other’s talents and research and applying their research to my own knowledge/experience and research.
Another major positive is (via the Lord’s and friends help), is Michelle is doing better, Jodie has really blossomed and I have been much better at giving up my bitterness and hurt from the past!
*Thanks also go to my long time friend Bob Mendoza, and friends Bob Krause and Roger Stewart for their encouragement and support, often during the most difficult times.
LUCIA MICARELLI –
KANSAS; CARRY ON WAYWARD SON
JOURNEY; OPEN ARMS (Live)
Go-GOs; Head Over Heals
Unchained Melody Les Baxter Orchestra 1955